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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
2.
Very down to earth here and a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating and relationships.
Very much enjoy living in the country. Lived on a horse farm for some years and enjoy horseback riding. Not at all into the 'gay scene', which means I don't go to the bars. Seldom drink, don't smoke but do occasionally enjoy a little 420. I enjoy old fashioned holidays. I DO NOT respond to faceless profiles.
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davidson County, Tennessee, USA
3.
I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 36, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
4.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
5.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
6.
Masculine nice guy. Grew up in SW Louisiana in the marsh/swamps. Family grew soybeans and rice. It's
a gigantic duck hunting area as well. Would be great to have someone to go with and enjoy it with me.
Age: 57, male, looking for friends with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
7.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 75, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
8.
I don't try to be someone I'm not as many others here. I'm a regular average guy on the outside.
Inside, I've always liked cowboys or guys who dress the part, and I like guys who are really masculine, more than myself (I'm a mix of masculine/sensitive/emotional – call the last parts feminine if you want). I'm conversational and intelligent. I don't like drama seekers or guys who email me professing that they want monogamy and immediately proceed to ask me explicit sexual questions and then throw me away once they find I don't fit their narrow sexual pursuits. I certainly have my sexual proclivities and fetishes and describe myself very generally as "submissive", but I really like to be conversational with someone and grow to like and trust them first. I don't smoke or use recreational drugs and am only interested in the same (occasional cigar smokers being an exception). I love to swim, hike, walk, bike, ski, and take photos of nature. Many of us are damaged in some form or another as gay/bi men but treat each other like disposable pieces of shit, especially on sites like this. Approach me with civility, conservation, and curiosity and you will receive that back in kind.
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA
9.
In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 65, male, looking for dating with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
12.
I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
14.
NEW
Hi there,
Im Moussa 28 year old from Mechelen Belgium.
Looking to meet a trucker and see what happens.
Im moroccan but was born and raised here...
However Im Narnia deep in the closet. (Or maybe truck soon?)
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Antwerp, BELGIUM
15.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
16.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
17.
Howdy
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
19.
I used to work as an architect, but now away from work and learning skills including carpentry,
woodcraft and traditional arts.
Seeking the possibility to build houses with less machine-dependent way, and practicing Japanese joinery by hand tools.
Age: 45, male, looking for friends with a man in Tokyo, Tokyo, JAPAN
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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in S W Minneapolis, Minneapolis, Minnesota, USA
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1.
Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
...
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
2.
Very down to earth here and a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating and relationships.
Very much enjoy living in the country. Lived on a horse farm for some years and enjoy horseback riding. Not at all into the 'gay scene', which means I don't go to the bars. Seldom drink, don't smoke but do occasionally enjoy a little 420. I enjoy old fashioned holidays. I DO NOT respond to faceless profiles.
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davidson County, Tennessee, USA
3.
I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 36, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
4.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
5.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
6.
Masculine nice guy. Grew up in SW Louisiana in the marsh/swamps. Family grew soybeans and rice. It's
a gigantic duck hunting area as well. Would be great to have someone to go with and enjoy it with me.
Age: 57, male, looking for friends with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
7.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
...
Age: 75, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
8.
I don't try to be someone I'm not as many others here. I'm a regular average guy on the outside.
Inside, I've always liked cowboys or guys who dress the part, and I like guys who are really masculine, more than myself (I'm a mix of masculine/sensitive/emotional – call the last parts feminine if you want). I'm conversational and intelligent. I don't like drama seekers or guys who email me professing that they want monogamy and immediately proceed to ask me explicit sexual questions and then throw me away once they find I don't fit their narrow sexual pursuits. I certainly have my sexual proclivities and fetishes and describe myself very generally as "submissive", but I really like to be conversational with someone and grow to like and trust them first. I don't smoke or use recreational drugs and am only interested in the same (occasional cigar smokers being an exception). I love to swim, hike, walk, bike, ski, and take photos of nature. Many of us are damaged in some form or another as gay/bi men but treat each other like disposable pieces of shit, especially on sites like this. Approach me with civility, conservation, and curiosity and you will receive that back in kind.
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA
9.
In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 65, male, looking for dating with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA 11.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Springfield, Missouri, USA
12.
I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
14.
NEW
Hi there,
Im Moussa 28 year old from Mechelen Belgium.
Looking to meet a trucker and see what happens.
Im moroccan but was born and raised here...
However Im Narnia deep in the closet. (Or maybe truck soon?)
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Antwerp, BELGIUM
15.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
16.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
17.
Howdy
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
19.
I used to work as an architect, but now away from work and learning skills including carpentry,
woodcraft and traditional arts.
Seeking the possibility to build houses with less machine-dependent way, and practicing Japanese joinery by hand tools.
Age: 45, male, looking for friends with a man in Tokyo, Tokyo, JAPAN
20.
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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in S W Minneapolis, Minneapolis, Minnesota, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next