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A man who is currently single and looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man

My Vitals:

Age: 47, Orientation: gay, Height: 5' 09" (175 cm), Weight: 185 lbs (84 kg), Body Type: average, Ethnicity: white / european

Where I Live:

 USA  >>  Missouri

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First off: If you are reading this and have not been tested recently I urge you to please get tested and be safe! It has been a long time since I have even viewed a dating website. I am sceptic, but hope this platform is better than most. Have been single and not dated for several years. Took time for myself and don't have the desire to constantly seek out a relationship or make it a priority to be involved in one. I do yearn for a loving relationship; someone I can snuggle with, do things with, enjoy life experiences, etc. For me, sex is an intimate connection between two souls - not something I enjoy/do with random fellows.

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First off: If you are reading this and have not been tested recently I urge you to please get tested and be safe! Qualities I possess and/or seek: Honest and up front about intentions No intense emotional drama over anything in your day-to-day life He’s busy with his career, and supports you endlessly in yours Self-motivated Combination of emotional and mental maturity Can talk through anything (no, but actually, really talk it through) Takes you out. Will to treat you well. Regards you as a sincere equal, and it shows Don’t have to look for “hidden meaning” to your interactions He knows what he wants He’s introspective Regards your trust as something that must be earned He regards your love as something he experiences, as opposed to something he owns It has been a long time since I have even viewed a dating website. I am sceptic, but hope this platform is better than most. Have been single and not dated for several years. Took time for myself and don't have the desire to constantly seek out a relationship or make it a priority to be involved in one. I do yearn for a loving relationship; someone I can snuggle with, do things with, enjoy life experiences, etc. I am a monogamous, affectionate, attentive, and versatile partner. 40something, I do not see age being a huge factor in a relationship. I am neither a "bear" or "daddy" type. I have connected on a friendship level with guys 18-50, and dated older and younger. Most think I am much younger than my age. I like the outdoors.Enjoy taking care of the lawn and gardening, landscaping, home improvement projects. Love nature and must be apart of it. Fishing, hiking, boating, sightseeing, or just taking a drive or walk and get lost in the great outdoors. I have a great passion for cooking. Enjoy working out. Three things that warm my heart the most are; kids, the Seniors/Elderly, and pets/animals. I enjoy being in the presence of all mentioned. The type of guy I am most attracted too is a man's man. I like a guy to have some meat on the bones, but not obese. A guy that is not afraid to get dirty. Masculine/Rugged and cleans up nicely. ;) I work independently and can do so just about anywhere I go. Thus, I am not grounded to area I currently reside and open to exploring other locations. Before escalating a dating status further it will be mandatory to have a full screening for hiv,sti, vd, stds. I will do the same. Always been in good health (neg for any and all stds, hiv, sti, vd, ect.) and like to keep it that way. For me, sex is an intimate connection between two souls - not something I enjoy/do with random fellows.

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